I think I’ve managed to give the impression that I take sex and dating very seriously. That’s far from accurate, after all, I’m the genius that brought you The Revenge Fuck & Other Bad Ideas. It’s just that I think a lot about the impact of sex and dating, so I’m pretty thorough about my reflections – after the fact. That impact leaves a pretty strong aftertaste, and sometimes it takes a good palate cleanser to prepare you for what comes next. Preferably, a really hot one.
Lanae wrote about the Post Divorce Phases a while ago, and she’s right on. What she refers to as the The Slut Phase is the “lots of sex right after divorce” stage. I think this applies to the initial phase after any break up, and I think it’s essential. That is the phase in which we enjoy lots of tasty palate cleansers. Continue reading
Let me just say, I love healthy, respectful discussion. It’s a REAL turn on for me.
That said, this series of (so far) 4 previous blog posts by Alyssa and me
1. a little help here
2. it’s a jungle out there
3. she’s a brick house
4. eye candy, sugar daddies and cougars (oh my!) Continue reading
Yes, we ALL make fun of and judge the guy who carries around the trollopy trophy girl, and not in a good way.
I had a great talk with an old friend yesterday. I haven’t seen him in person in a zillion years, but he’s a couple of years older than me, recently divorced, very successful and spending a lot of time on the road for work. I was enjoying my morning coffee as he was having lunch on a park bench in Manhattan yesterday, and felt the need to call me and tell me that this whole dating thing is a pain in the ass for men too. Guess it’s not going well for him. Continue reading
Yesterday, I watched the Commencement Address Steve Jobs did at Stanford U “How to live before you die” back in June 2005. There were lots of points that had an impact on me, but none more than the following part. Continue reading